Going Up?

This morning I saw a young guy have difficulty getting on the elevator. His overloaded cart stubbornly refused to make it through the door. I grabbed one end and helped him push it through the doors and onto the elevator. He thanked me, a random stranger to him, and we went our separate ways. He needed help. I helped. The end.

The flashback made me reel.

Almost thirty years ago I pushed a similar cart onto an elevator at my first job – or attempted to. I had difficulty with my cart until a random stranger helped me out.

When I got my first job at A.H. Robins in my hometown of Richmond, Virginia, family and friends alike applauded. How lucky I was, they said, to have been hired by the pharmaceutical company owned by such a well-known and respected Richmond family. They were correct.

I had friends and family employed there and had always heard stories of the close relationship employees had, not just with each other, but with members of the Robins family themselves. At the time, E. Claiborne Robins Sr., already in his seventies, still came to his office each day. I’d never met any of the Robins family and wouldn’t have known them had we passed on the street, but stories of their kindness and goodwill were heard in the halls daily.

It was during my first week that I took that overloaded cart and headed to the sixth floor of “the Tower”. I knew there were people of importance up there… but as the new guy in my early twenties, everyone I saw in the halls seemed important. Still, each one smiled and said hello. It was that sort of place there at A.H.Robins.

Stella, my supervisor at the time and now almost thirty years later still my friend, had helped me load the cart.

“You take it on up and I’ll meet you at the front desk. I gotta talk to Helen a minute.” Stella said. She was sure I’d have no trouble.

I wasn’t so sure.

Trouble started for me about the time Stella waved to a friend in Employee Health as she passed by on her way to the front desk. The wheels of my cart became lodged in the track of the elevator door and there I stood, embarrassed, stuck, and jolted each time the elevator door closed on me, re-opened and closed on me again.

I was mortified.

As I pondered simply leaving the cart wedged in the door and doing the army crawl through the cafeteria and straight home, a hand pushed against the door. An old man tossed his briefcase into the elevator and grabbed one end of the cart. He said very little. In fact I don’t know if he even spoke at all – but he smiled – and I knew he was there to help.

In a matter of seconds the old man helped me dislodge the cart and get it onto the elevator. With little room then left inside, he told me to go ahead, he’d take the next one up. I made my trip to the sixth floor and back down to where Stella stood leaning against the front desk. She had a grin on her face.

Assuming she was going to laugh at my getting stuck in the elevator, I confessed.

“The cart got stuck but an old man helped me.” I said quickly, awaiting her response.

“Uhhh, Stuart”, she began with an excited smile, “that was no old man. That was Mr. Robins!”

That was the first time, but I’m happy to say not the last, that I met E. Claiborne Robins, Sr. Each time, he had a smile on his face.

Employees smiled there too. I’m still impressed with the way past employees remain in touch, gather several times a year, and keep each other informed on topics of all sorts. All these years later, I still have several friends from that era. We shared a unique experience being employed there together.

I was spoiled by the Robins experience. In the time that has followed my nearly eleven years there, I have yet to encounter a work environment that comes close to encouraging, rewarding, and supporting its employees the way A.H. Robins did. I’m sure the credit goes to the smiling old man who helped me get my cart onto the elevator.

A man who took over a family business, spent decades building it to national and international prominence, and who undoubtedly had more to do that particular day than “unstick” a cart for an embarrassed kid, still took the time to do just that. Smiling all the while.

I needed help. He helped. The end.

Stuart M. Perkins

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106 responses to “Going Up?

  1. tellthetruth1

    Reminds me of when I was a kid. People had good manners in those days, and good manners were considered normal. If you were bad mannered, you stood out. Wow, how times have changed. Thanks for this uplifting story, and I’m glad you got the chance to work there.

  2. Sounds like a wonderful place filled with wonderful people!!

  3. Another nice moment captured in words that fit the memory. Simple, concise, sweet.

  4. MRS N, the Author

    I loved reading this and it shows me kindness is everywhere, even in elevators! 🙂

  5. MRS N, the Author

    Reblogged this on Princess of the Light: Shining the Light For All and commented:
    A great story about kindness and helping others, no matter who you are! #kindness

  6. A great place to work; better yet, a great man for whom to work! Great post!!

  7. Thanks for the wonderful story. I was pleasantly surprised to read a tale straight out of Richmond. I too have known the A.H. Robbins family of employees, as I live in Richmond. My friends that have worked at A.H.R. all used to talk about the great work environment and friendliness.

  8. sweetpea2love

    Wonderful story, and we need more work environments like this. The employees would certainly be more productive and happy.. Thank you for sharing this lovely story. Take care and happy blogging to ya. P.S. Thanking you kindly for the follow…

  9. When I was younger, o, so many years ago, the people you worked for, and with, were neighbors. There was a savings and loan in the neighborhood that was always known as Ropa’s (Ropa was the family name of the people who owned/ran it). The Ropas lived around the corner from us, went to the same church, belonged to the same local organizations. Department stores, and grocers and bakers were all local. They were more responsive to their customers BECAUSE they were neighbors, too. I miss those days.

  10. Reblogged this on Fake Smile and commented:
    Sweetest story ever… made me smile. And I needed help with that! xo

  11. In those days, it was automatic to help someone. I hope that our younger generation is learning to extend themselves to do the same. Yours is a lovely, uplifting (no pun intended) story.

  12. Excellent story as well as a fun part of your history. Really, that’s what life is all about: helping family, friends and strangers.

  13. But that wasn’t the end. He caused a ripple that you continue, oh these many years later

  14. Thanks for sharing a story that shows the simple, good, deeds people do for each other, In my twenties I worked in a sales office; it could get stressful but we were all supportive and caring of one another. I’m still friends with my old manager and many of my co-workers, too.

  15. You mention how the job spoiled you for those to follow; I wonder if that’s good or bad. My first job had the opposite effect…

  16. We are often quick to dismiss acts of kindness from others. I have often been the recipient of help from a stranger and I am always grateful. Whenever possible, I try to extend the same courtesy to others – and always with a smile. Thank you for reminding me how valuable that simple deed can be for others.

  17. So nice. They’re harder to find, but there still are a few family-worker friendly organizations out there.  Heartwarming.  Thanks.

  18. What an amazing and inspiring story, all the more so for being true! Mr. Robins reminds me of the leader alluded to in the Tao te Ching, by Lao Tzu, who does his job so well that nobody even knows he’s there. Thanks also for liking my blog post.

  19. Glad to hear you had such a wonderful working experience.

    I worked in a company like that until the old man died and the company was sold. Then, what a 360 degree change.

  20. I wonder if he’ll return the favor to someone else in a few years?

  21. It used to be a man worked his way up through the company so he understood what everyone did. Now, all you need is a degree, come ridin in with both guns a-blazin, and ‘leave your mark / put your stamp’ on the way things are done. Nice to see a story where a legacy was actually built, and still endures, from an example set at the top.

  22. What a lovely and thoughtful post. It brought tears to my eyes, and made me think of George Bailey from “It’s A Wonderful Life”.

  23. Wonderful post. I, too, had a best-ever job, and things were never the same once that place went out of business. Bittersweet memories.

  24. AC

    A great work environment provides a treasured memory for a lifetime.

  25. Great story! It’s amazing what happens when we really take the time to be in the moment and see people.

  26. cardamone5

    Being helped, appreciating that help, and paying it forward by helping others is the key to happiness. The end. Oh, and enjoying your work environment. Good for you.

    Fondly,
    Elizabeth

  27. I wish could give you two likes!

  28. Thank you for the visit.
    What lovely memories..thank you for sharing.

  29. Care and concern for others will change the workplace landscape in wonderful ways. Thanks for a great story that tells it well!

  30. kabirgandhiok

    A very heartwarming story, thanks for sharing it and for stopping by at my blog. I’m honored and deeply appreciate it. 🙂

  31. shondab77

    Amazing story and written so well

  32. So easy to take a minute to help someone else and yet…

  33. Great post. Thanks for sharing.

  34. Nothing better than memories of great people to work for and/or with… I’ve always been lucky!

  35. DianeAP

    Great blog. I enjoyed it. I, too, have found that many top corporate executives are not only personable, but gracious and helpful. (I think they delegate the hatchet jobs to middle managers.) How nice that you played it forward. And it’s special that you have lasting friendships and good memories from your first job.

  36. Reminds me off my place of work

  37. Simple acts of decency require a little effort, cost nothing, and go a very long way. Your sharing of this story will show the way for further kindness. Today I will make an extra effort with my own staff. Thankyou.

  38. It’s nice to know that there are still people like that out there. A simple act of kindness costs nothing but means so much.

  39. Funny. It is wonderful to see helpful people out there, especially when they don’t have to help. Thanks for stopping by my blog and liking it. Be blessed today. Meghan

  40. I love the symmetry of this story ~ thanks Stuart!

  41. Enjoyed the story! Keep shucking!

  42. I love this story! It gives you faith in the human race.

  43. Nice deed! Over where I am at, we call it paying it forward. Love this post! Thanks for sharing! 🙂

  44. Nah, that’s not the end! He helped you, you helped someone, he would help someone else…it doesn’t end, these little acts of kindness. Indeed, it shouldn’t.

  45. so inspiring! gives us hope for a better world

  46. Reblogged this on 5 Feet Tall- Overcoming stereotypes and commented:
    Simply an amazing story of kindness and how important it is

  47. It’s anecdotes like these that restore your faith in human nature. Thanks for sharing!

  48. These smalls gesture of affection like smiling and helping people and many more are simply yet special things that keep us all binding under the banner of humanity…It proves that we all are the children of only one Father .Your post helped me to answer a question of my friend who thinks that the world is getting super selfish day by day. Thank you!

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